At Tomsey Engineering & Services International Ltd., International Women’s Day is more than a global celebration—it is a moment to recognize the strength, resilience, and impact of women who continue to shape industries, communities, and the future.

This year’s theme, “Give to Gain,” reminds us of a powerful truth: when women are empowered, supported, and given opportunities to thrive, everyone benefits. Growth is not isolated—it is shared. Progress is not individual—it is collective.

Across our organization and beyond, women are leading, innovating, and inspiring change every day. From engineering and technical services to operations and business development, their contributions drive excellence and push boundaries. Their commitment, creativity, and leadership are essential to building a more inclusive and forward-thinking industry.

However, there is still work to be done. True progress requires intentional action—creating equal opportunities, fostering inclusive environments, and ensuring that every woman has the platform to succeed and lead. When we invest in women, we are not just supporting individuals; we are strengthening teams, businesses, and society as a whole.

Today, we celebrate the women of Tomsey and women everywhere who continue to give their best, lead with purpose, and inspire those around them. Your impact is seen, your voice is valued, and your contributions are shaping a better tomorrow.

When we give, we all gain.

Picture this: it’s Thursday evening. I’m on a client call trying to sort out a price variation on our contract – caused, of course, by the latest jump in material costs. The client is definitely not happy, and it’s a tense meeting. My 3-year-old, overly energetic as always, bursts into the room to show me his latest cartwheel and is insistent I pay attention to his moves. My phone pings — it’s an urgent message from my team about a supplier delay caused by overly zealous customs officers at the Port in Apapa. Meanwhile, my wife is asking if I remembered to pick up the pineapples – her favourite fruit, on the way home. And I still have to prepare a prayer outline for church by the weekend. This is real life.

Being a man in today’s Nigeria means wearing multiple hats: husband, father, COO of a 30-person organization with clients across the country, church worker, and the dependable family member others (uncles, cousins, and everything in between) turn to when times are tough — financially and otherwise. And the times are tough. The economic uncertainty, the price surges, that keep blindsiding businesses and households alike — it all piles on the pressure.

For years, I wore my stress like a badge of honour. After all, wasn’t that what being a man meant? Push through. Provide. Protect. But eventually, I realised that approach was like trying to carry the weight of Lagos traffic on your head — it will crush you.

Now, I take a different approach. I prioritise small moments of connection — the 15 minutes before bedtime when I pray with my boys and talk about their day, or the quick call with my wife during the day where we vent about how our day at work is going. Those moments are my reset buttons.

I also set boundaries (well, I try to!). When that late-night work request comes in, I remind myself: if I’m always available, I’ll soon be unavailable in the ways that matter — emotionally, mentally, even physically.

And let’s not underestimate the magic of community. Games night with friends, or banter after church meetings, goes a long way. It’s not always about finding solutions — sometimes, just knowing you’re not alone in this daily hustle makes a world of difference.

Finally, I’ve stopped chasing the perfect “balance.” Life comes in waves. Some days, business demands more — especially in an unpredictable economy. Other days, the family needs me to be fully present. What matters is being intentional in whatever role I’m in at that moment.

On this special day, we pause to recognize and honor the unwavering strength, silent sacrifices, and profound impact of fathers everywhere. Father’s Day is more than just a date on the calendar — it’s a heartfelt reminder of the quiet guidance, enduring love, and consistent support that dads provide throughout our lives.

At Tomsey Engineering & Services International Ltd., we understand the importance of strong foundations — both in structures and in relationships. Just as a solid framework holds up a building, a father’s presence lays the groundwork for the values, discipline, and confidence that shape generations.

This Father’s Day, we salute the men who rise early, work hard, and give their all without asking for recognition. To the ones who lead by example, protect with strength, and inspire with love — thank you. Your influence reaches beyond words and lasts through time.

Whether you’re a father, a father figure, or someone cherishing the memory of one, today is for you.

Here’s to fathers:

• Our first heroes.

• Our lifelong role models.

• The steady hands behind every success story.

From all of us at Tomsey, Happy Father’s Day.